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“Help me! I’m too busy and something needs to change…”
I get it. Being ‘too busy’ isn’t sustainable and doesn’t serve you or your clients. It may even be getting in the way of you growing your business.
The good news? It’s fixable, so grab your to-do list and ask yourself the following questions.
We often have things on our to-do lists that either:
After answering this question, you should be left with a list of things that are due in the next week or so – and a list of things that aren’t due yet (or are ideas and are no longer on the list!)
If you are like most business owners I know, as a default you feel like you must do everything. You are good at what you do. You are used to being the one to get it all done, but now things are starting to fall behind and slip through the cracks.
Run through your list again and ask yourself – could someone else do this for me? Be aware of the following when you answer:
The goal here is simple – identify the things that others could do for you. It doesn’t mean you have to hire a bunch of people tomorrow, but at the very least you can look to give more to the people you have already and plan ahead for getting more support (which becomes a light at the end of the busy tunnel!)
This second question can be a doozy as it brings up all kinds of stuff – it might make your inner control freak have a bit of a fit. If you go through your list and still have your name beside every task, let’s talk. An outside eye can often see what you can’t.
At this point you should have a realistic list of what needs to be done in the next week or so. Now you want to ensure you have the space and time to get it done. Here are two of my favorite tips:
If you are truly in over your head and can’t get everything done, then you need to revise your deadlines with clients, team members or whoever may be waiting on you. I get that this sucks and you may hate having to do it, but it’s better for you to own up to something ahead of time vs. having people get upset with you because they are waiting/asking.
To simply say to someone “Hey, I got in over my head here and that’s on me. I won’t be able to get X to you until next Monday and wanted to let you know.” Yes, you might need to make concessions for being late if this affects their timelines.
Even if they are frustrated, people will respect you for stepping up and being real with what is going on – and quite often they are OK with adjusted timelines if they know ahead of time.
The beauty of these 4 questions is that you can use them over and again. Work through this process every time you find yourself too busy, and ideally overtime you won’t need to anymore.
If you are looking to get off the hamster wheel of always being ‘too busy’ – let’s talk. As an OBM this is one of my specialty areas and I’d be happy to hop on a call with you to identify 5 things that could come off your plate immediately.

Lynda Carlini is a business strategist and mentor who helps coaches and service providers grow their revenue without sacrificing their energy, boundaries, or life.
She’s the creator of The Ease & Profit Method™ and founder of Aqua Blue Virtual Services, where she and her team guide women entrepreneurs to simplify, systemize, and scale sustainably.
Lynda knows firsthand what it’s like to balance business with life. From running her husband’s construction company while raising three kids under five to building her own online business from the ground up, her journey has always been about creating freedom and flexibility.
Today, Lynda partners with women ready to move from survival mode to calm, confident CEO—so they can spend more time living and less time stuck behind the scenes of their business.
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